On the next table was the current heroine (or as she put it "shero", as opposed to "hero") of women's groups in Swaziland, the attorney Doo Aphane (below).

Doo just went to court to fight for the right of married women to own property jointly with their husbands, and won her case just two weeks ago. Until then, women had no rights at all regarding title deeds property - this refers to formal property ownership, mainly in urban areas.
You can read more about it at http://allafrica.com/stories/201003050891.html
The other "shero" is Justice Qinisile Mabuza who heard the case and is the first female judge in the Swaziland High Court.
In rural areas, all land is owned by the King. In exchange for cattle, the chief of each area is able to loan you land (if you're a man). However, this land can be taken back at any time - on your death, or before if the chief and local committee decide that you should not have it any more. (As an aside, cows are also used as a "gift" to families in exchange for a wife. Apparently the going rate is between 5 and 20 cows, depending on how rich the family is.)

Anyway, back to the conference... In some contrast to Doo on the next table, on our table was Miss Swaziland 2009/2010, and the head of the local organising committee, Miss Swaziland 1975, Vinah Mamba-Gray. Miss Swaziland is sponsored by Kentucky Fried Chicken, and alas it does say Finger Lickin' Good on her sash. Imagine our surprise when Vinah turned to Gemma and me and asked us if we would join her on the organising committee for the next Miss Swaziland. Never have I (or Gemma apparently) been soooooo lost for words.
Having said that, SWAGAA is trying to get behind Miss Swaziland to try to be more supportive of young women, possibly as Miss Swaziland 2008 committed suicide last year. There's also a feeling that Miss Swaziland could provide a useful channel to young women for communication on HIV and AIDS. So maybe it's not all bad, though Gemma and I politely (we think) declined her kind invitation.
Somewhat embarrassingly, a photo of Gemma and me featured in today's Times of Swaziland, appearing to listen attentively (impressive!) to one of the speakers. I'll be sure to put a copy on here when we've found a way of scanning it in (don't hold your breath!).
Marvellous!I can't believe you shirked your civic duty and avoided volunteering to help out with the contest, shame on you! Sounds like you are keeping yourself busy, good to hear that Swazi women are getting behind the International Women's Day, personally I took the day off as a mark of respect. Keep up the good work. Got to the skype-chat a bit too late but will leave my system on in future. Good luck with car and house. Hx
ReplyDeleteGood to hear your news. Yes - how could you? I would have struggled to turn down a request for such an noble cause. :-^).
ReplyDeleteps how many cows is Con's family good for?
Get down here Michael, I'm sure we can arrange an intro. Would you like to meet Miss 2009 or Miss 1975??? x
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